To my family, friends, and blog buddies, THANK YOU deeply for your thoughts, prayers, and concerns involving my widowhood.
It has been over a year and half since my husband, Ronnie, passed away at the young age of 56. Since I had been with him for almost 32 years, I had to do some extreme adjusting in ALL aspects of my life after his death. My job(s). My family relationships. My responsibilities. And, of course, adjusting in living alone. Somehow, there seemed to be no room in my life any more for just ME. I was always doing something that NEEDED to be done, instead of me WANTING to do it. There was no fun to be seen in the horizon.
BUT ! On December 8, 2007 I had a date. A date with a very good man. His name is Terry. He lives locally. (no, I did not meet him on the internet)
I will not tell you much details. I will say tho, that for the past 2 months, I have been very happy every single day. It's as if I'm a teenager again. A "teenager" with numerous responsibilities (which I am still seeing after). I'm sure God knew WHEN to introduce Terry into my life. HE knew when I could handle everything.
If Terry and I don't see each other every day, we at least TXT everyday. Yes - text messaging! We always TXT each other a "Good Morning" and a "Good Night" every day. We TXT alot! See what I mean about "being a teenager"? ha ha (I had to change my cell phone plan. The TXTing was killing me on the phone bill)
P.S........ I have even started attending church most every Sunday morning with Terry.
I hope that this new chance of happines works out for you. We all deserve it.
Posted by: Tom | December 14, 2008 at 01:32 PM
I hope that this new chance of happines works out for you. We all deserve it.
Posted by: Tom | December 14, 2008 at 01:27 PM
Hi Cindy,
I just started back on my blog after about two years of life! I see that you left a message back then so wanted to visit you.
I'm sorry to hear of your past loss but glad to hear of your new happiness.
I've been blessed with five grandchildren.
My daughter-in-law is also a twin.
Posted by: peggy | April 10, 2008 at 12:19 AM
Hi Cindy,
Sorry for the lack of comments but it is so good to see hear that you are doing well. It is encouraging to read about Terry and your new habits. Not because you need a man, but because you deserve to be happy.
Love,
Tracy
Posted by: Tracy | April 07, 2008 at 10:07 PM
It's been a while since I've visited. So glad to hear you've found happiness.
Posted by: Childsplayx2 | March 20, 2008 at 11:52 PM
Hi Cindy,
Just started posting again today and also began to read my favorite blogs...So happy to hear you are texting...very impressed...oh, and the guy, Terry...that's nice, too...hahaha...
May the coming years only be filled with happiness for you...!
Posted by: Carol Scibelli | March 20, 2008 at 03:03 PM
Hi Cindy,
Just started posting again today so just started reading my favorite blogs today, too.
Just saw your post and I am so very happy for you.
Who would have thought you could learn to text...oh, and the guy must must make you happy, too. hahaha
May the next chapter in your life be only filled with happiness...!
Posted by: Carol Scibelli | March 20, 2008 at 03:01 PM